Accessing Content & Social Settings
These settings let you control who your child can message, friend, or interact with.
- Open the Discord app
- Tap the You icon in the bottom-right corner
- Open Settings
- Tap the gear icon in the top-right corner of the You page
- Navigate to Content & Social
- Scroll down to find Content & Social in the settings menu
- From here, you can adjust messaging and friend options
Blocking Sensitive Media
Prevent your child from viewing or receiving inappropriate content in messages.
- Go to Content & Social
- Tap Direct Messages from friends
- Set sensitivity controls
- Choose to block friends from sending sensitive content, or choose to blur such content
- Adjust messages from non-friends
- Tap Direct Messages from others and set to Block to prevent messages from strangers
Filtering for Spam
Stop unwanted or spam messages from reaching your child’s inbox.
- Go to the Content & Social menu
- Scroll to Direct Message spam
- Choose your filter level
- Select Filter all messages or Filter from non-friends
Messages identified as spam will be redirected to a separate inbox.
Managing Server Settings
Control how your child interacts with others inside group servers.
- Access Server settings
- In Content & Social, scroll to Server settings
- Choose server scope
- Tap Server defaults to choose a specific server or select All servers to apply settings across the board
- Apply restriction
- Use toggles to disable DMs from server members or filter messages from people your child doesn't know
Managing Friend Requests
Control who can send your child friend requests.
- Open Friend Requests
- In the Content & Social menu, scroll to Friend requests
- Set request permissions
- Tick boxes to allow requests from Everyone, Friends of Friends, or Server Members
- Restrict all requests
- To prevent new requests, uncheck all boxes
Setting Up Discord Family Centre
Family Centre allows you to link your account with your teen’s to monitor activity.
- Go to your Discord profile
- Tap the You icon (bottom-right) → Tap the gear icon (top-right)
- Set up Family Centre
- Select Family Centre from the settings menu
- Tap Connect with Teen
- Link your profiles
- Scan the QR code from your child’s screen to send the link request
- Once accepted, Family Centre will be activated
- Monitor usage
- View how many users your child has messaged or called, how many new friends they’ve made, and how many servers they’ve joined